Whatis, I had never thought about changing locks, only telling her it was time to leave, that I am done with her cake eating, if she does not want to be here, then I don't want her here. That, quite honestly, is the truth as I see it at this point in time. It does bring up the question of how to back it up though. I will have to look into that.
It is just so frustrating, we can sit together and watch TV w/ S6 and she can be such a wonderful mother, just sitting and being close with her hand on his head. That kid would do anything for her, and yet she is willing to toss him under the bus with everybody else. I just don't get it.
How do they not see what they are doing. How does she not see her 14 year old daughter who idolizes her mother? and can't appreciate how lucky she is that her teenage daughter thinks that way about her mother? How does she look past her very sensitive 11 year old daughter who goes out of her way to just find ways to spend time with mom? and comes up with projects that she knows mom will have to help with?
I think that is what infuriates me the most, she has to see these things, it is not possible to not see them. That means she is choosing to disregard them in favor of her own "happiness". Even putting aside my feelings, how in the world can she be able to do this?
81388 Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,
"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis
