We talked last night, AGAIN. I don't know how long I can stand this anymore. From what I gather, he simply cannot decide. He cannot let her go. He said his first priority is the kids, after that he is not sure. Basically saying I am on equal footing with OW. Of course hearing that made me sick to the stomach. However, I am not surprised. He has pretty much been going back and forth all these months anyway. He has all the reasons/excuses supporting staying with me or going with OW. He just cannot make up his mind. "So how?" is his daily question to me. I am just wondering, how long do I wait for him? I am GAL now, in fact I am going to see a movie with some girlfriends tonight while he is going out with OW. I really want to push him to make a decision but I have been on this board long enough to know that is not a good idea. Now it is just so frustrating to have to wait it out. OW is also quite intelligent from what I gather so she is having her own clever tactics also. I feel like I am in such a competition. Enough venting. Thanks for reading.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
