You have made HERCULEAN efforts in this whole sitch man. I know it feels like things will be this way forever, and your feelings are important, but perhaps you can remember that you have been working your tail off to save your marriage for less than a year. Not to imply that's not a lot, but time CAN help.
You are such an inspiration, and your posts played a huge role in helping me find my peace in my sitch. I know God has great happiness in store for you. Hang on.
