Heather has made it abundantly clear what her limits are, and that she has reached them.
She has made an offer of communication and negotiation to her husband. She may keep the offer on the table for a while, but she has said that she has gone as far as she can go. I started this process with her knowing that whatever was done, had to be done within the boundaries of her divorce filling and her limited ability to handle additional pain.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.