If she wants to go you can not change her mind. You can change yourself and that will change your relationship. You have to realize there are people here that have been doing this for six months to over a year. Your relationship is going to be lost for good if you keep pushing. Trust me.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.