Ask what you feel is necessary, but you need to give it some time. You are acting to fast, and it is going to hurt you. You need to take it slow. Let things start working itself out. She will grieve, and you need to support her. But don't FIX it. you can't FIX IT, you have to solve the problem by fixing yourself. Fix yourself and it will help her grieve faster. She will see actions and not words. Don't ask a lot of questions, let her tell you the answers when she is ready. She took a big step and is trying to end the A. So take this time to support her, and also take the time to change.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
