Well, like was said earlier. It's hard to work on a R from afar. So do what you have to do. Give it some time, and focus on your changes. She misses the excitement, maybe it's the sneaking around, or it's something else. Find out and change.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.