personally I think it's harder to work on a R from afar...

however since my H moved out, things have gotten slightly better between us so who knows. What do you feel - what is your gut telling you?

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

me=ok /D'd since 7/07
D=ok