Is she willing to talk about it when you ask? Because sometimes they feel guilt and respond in a negative way. My W is open, and I think she feels like it helps her get it off her chest. but when I bring up my feelings about it, she gets negative and wants a Divorce. So watch how you approach her with the questions. and if you can't handle the truth, don't ask.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
