There's three right there.

Is she still talking to OM? Does she want to work on the R? She must if she's going to counseling...

Can she change jobs?

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

me=ok /D'd since 7/07
D=ok