Well, now is the time to make changes. this won't be short and sweet but long and hard. You will be on an emotional rollercoaster, times you will want to give up, and times you want to push her in a direction. You can not do any of these. Be the friend she fell in love with,and let her decide to come back when she is ready. Bad part is sometomes Affairs can last six months and thats tough, but be strong and stay positive. Don't act on your emotions, let them be a part of you and not tell her these things. She knows you want to be with her, and you love her. But she doesn't need to hear them. Stay focused and read that book untill you have got it down pat.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
