He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

I have also realized today - I have to stop worrying about what everyone else is thinking, saying, opinionating and so on. But then I need to remember to stop telling the world my woes too.

I will do what I need to do for as long as I can do it. H is confused and I need to run with the confusion and show him how much he misses the nightly interactions with me, the kids, his dog, his wide screen TV with his wood burner in a toasty warm lower level vs. his boring cold apartment. He (or WE) built the home we are in and he lives for his house projects - he will go stir crazy in a 1 BR apt....