Quote: -------------------------------------------------------- I know you're gonna say that only I can answer that, but I need somebody to tell me how fking long I need to do this. --------------------------------------------------------
I am sorry that you feel duped.
The deal is simple. You have filed, therefore you are in control. Since you are in control, you determine what you will invest in the remaining relationship.
You can't force him to accept your offer, on your time scale, for a new relationship. You can only invite him. You can make the offer one-time-only, or you can stretch it out. So as much as you don't want to, you have to decide what you can tolerate.
I will suggest what I think you should do. I think you should give him a month while you communicate and give it your best shot. At the end of the month. Tell him what you did and that he rejected your offer and that you will now proceed with the divorce regardless of objections. Again, that is a suggestion only.
You have a workable plan, if you will follow it. It is up to you as to the duration.
Let me know what you are going to do.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
