What did he give her that you might not have been? You've already read that A's are symptoms - what was the problem in your opinion?

And dude - 12 years as gf/bf - why no ring ;\) - but I am seriously asking...what's held you back from marriage?

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

me=ok /D'd since 7/07
D=ok