I heard through the grapevine that this happened and was prepared to come here and give my condolences but it appears that you don't need it! (of course, I had to snoop around on others' threads too, see I am terrible at resolutions in general, especially those involving "just a pinch" of something I've given up--gotta go cold turkey)
You sound fantastic. My prediction is that the world of dating will rock your world, simply because you will not believe how wonderful men will find you. Years of living with MrWilson has done a number on your self esteem (how could it not?) but it's coming back already and it's evident from your posts on this thread.
I'm pulling for you sis. I think that your H will have second thoughts and make a bid to "win you back" but from the sound of you, I'm doubting his success.
Oh and hairdog is absolutely right. A cliffhanger like this while I'm going to be gone for 6 weeks. Niiiiiiiiice. I'll have no idea how this all pans out.
Take care of yourself and I'll be thinking of you.