HOw often do you mention your feelings to her about your M? HAve you read my thread on Piecing. It sounds very similar, and I have talked to a coach. There is things there that might help. I thought my W's A was over and I moved over there just to find myself flipping back and forth. But I have learned alot, and You might too.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.