I agree about the outside advice. Use the board - that's what we're here for. We are all working to save our marriages as well. Others, while they have good intentions, can offer bad advice for your sitch. They don't want to see you hurt, they want to see the hurt end sooner rather than later, but if the hurt you're enduring for a little while, leads to a positive later, isn't it worth it?
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
