Just wanted to point out the positive response you are already getting by backing off but still leaving the door open.. Do you see it??!! Good work
Heartbroken - You are going to appear to be a doormat to everyone outside of your situation. Those people have NO IDEA.. Keep your eye on your goal. Control how much YOU would like to see him. Shopping, Dinner...maybe not as much as he's suggesting but the amount YOU are comfortable with.
