He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

Thanks!

I sent a quick email this morning calling him pet name we use and he responded the same. He called and I was in a meeting and playfully accused me of screening my calls!

I called him back and we talked fine and I asked if I could call him after my C session tonight so we can talk about how much contact we want/need from each other. He says he likes talking to me and it's not an obligation.

So you think I should continue the weekly shopping??? - my best friend and her H think I am crazy. Others cannot believe I helped him move. H sees me handling this move so fine and being so strong - he says it confuses him more because he sees the positive side of me. I cannot be an angry bitch (the one my sister -in-law says to become) at him I LOVE HIM TO MUCH and always will. I am just trying to be me...to be even better than I can be - but do I appear to be his doormat then? He mentioned doing dinner as a family a few nights a week and I am not sure - what if he is just stringing the kids and me along? I just cannot have all of our hopes dashed... I have been hurt to much and I want to spare them as much as I can...