James, you're the one that made the change in your life. I'm glad to see that you have. As far as your teacher/student perspective goes, I don't agree with this at all. I think we all have both components to our personalities and we all have valuable life experiences to bring to the table. Don't lock yourself into a role.
I plan to go into it with a positive attitude. Negative thoughts happen somewhat spontaneously, so stopping them is not really an option. Choosing to recognize them for what they are and not acting on them as if they are reality is what counts. Gently casting them aside. I am acknowledging my fears and choosing to act in a way that, while it may have risks involved, offers opportunity for connection over opinions as well as choosing to act together to improve the relationship. Who knows? Maybe it's too much pressure, but then again, what have I really got to lose?
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
