He makes it so clear 100% of the time that his priority is the kids. I've never seen a person shower their kids with so much affection and attention as my H does with ours. Never, ever. He tells them they're beautiful, handsome, the best kids ever, and on and on and on. He's constantly touching them, hugging or cuddling, playing or showering with compliments. I would have thought H might be looking forward to seeing me after spending the weekend with the kids, but no. He laid down and he and S6 started building Legos, this huge set that has over 800 pcs. At one point, he sang a song something about loving S6 and D4, he does that all the time....I love my Tucker, I love my Ellie. I don't fit into the picture, I just don't. I don't want to compete with my kids for my husband's attention, that's just sick. That was the main difference between Friday and Sunday. Friday, he had attention, affection and a desire to be with ME, not just to be with the kids or the 'family'. Then it went away as fast as it came.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
