well divorced friends haven't conquered marriage, they're divorced. Their views are bound to be skewed by what they went through right?

I think you'll do fine - you sound like you're off to a good start! \:\)

Is counseling an option you two have discussed?

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

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