oh and in regards to a S - if your wife feels you need that, IMO she should seek out the place to move to, etc.

And stop listening to divorced friends ;\) - KWIM?

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

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