Part of what has brought me to that decision is the tension I feel....wow. Last night felt like the same old routine....I'm on the couch and H is down in 'his' bedroom watching a movie.
I’d like to know a little more about how this happened. Did he tell you to go sleep on the couch or did you just go there as a default because he didn’t invite you to sleep in the bed? Maybe he was disappointed that you went to the couch instead of asking him to sleep in the bed. Either way it seems like a little more communication could help, instead of assuming the worst. Care to elaborate?