It was actually a pretty good weekend - all things considered! It's amazing how there are times when we are out having fun that I almost forget about the OW. Of course, then an incoming text message come in!! UGH!! But, H is talking about future outings with us, me, etc. I just don't know how long he can carry on this double life. I truly think OW is starting to talk or WANT to talk to everyone about their R. Oh boy.. I really hope she does!!!
So - here's what is working: 1 - I backed waaaay off - no R talk unless H starts it 2 - no mention of OW 3 - remaining calm and slightly detached (trying not to take things personally!) 4 - Looking my best 5 - Being the one to initiate intimacy - hug, kiss, ILU, ML - in a loving way not a desparate one! 6 - Praying!
For all of you church-goers, isn't lent a great season since it is a season of soul-searching and repentence?! I know my H could hardly sit still this week!!
