I think this is where I belong

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As strange as it may seem, I envy your sitch a little bit. I feel you have some clarity and some resolution. I think you need to detach, which you're doing, and let go. Your W is on her own journey and working out her own issues. That she can party 'til dawn and miss seeing her d says a lot. But then again, your sitch probably isn't as black and white as I think it might be. You are still open to reconciliation, no? So you still might feel torn.

Sounds like you had a decent weekend. I always hate questions like "how was your weekend" or even "how are you?" How are any of us except generally crappy. But there are still good things, and good times. I'm glad you had some good times, both with your d and with your friends. That all helps with the PMA and GAL I'm sure.

As we've said as we support each other, we can't help but grow and learn from all of this, and eventually, if not already in many ways, come out better and stronger. Keep up the PMA, taking care of D, and detaching.