I feel for you girl!! I wish I lived closer to you,,maybe could help w/daycare,,I could not imagine how lonely it could be w/o family & friends, but anyway, I think you are being so much braver than I could ever be!! Sometimes I believe in what goes around-comes around,,soon she will leave him w/a broken heart to clean up after just like he left you! I can't speak from my sitch,,,my H tells me that their is no one else and I have tried sooo hard catching him but I can't! I think you most definately caught it in time(my H & I have been living in separate houses for 4yrs!) I can only dream to have as much resolve as you do now,,I think you are a very confident & smart woman to figure this out and HE WILL MISS what he had,,,I think I can say this b/c my H is also a "workaholic"-i'm not and "not much room for sex"-i'm a bit more needy in that area!
Hang in there and I hope all goes well for you!
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