H & I tried for several years to get pregnant, but it didn't happen. No medical explanation...
Anyway, we handled the whole situation by assumptions and not talking to each other about the situation. Instead of staying on that path, I brought up the issue with H today.
We've been waiting on MC for these "big" conversations, and it occured to me that if we're ever going to survive on our own, we can't be afraid of doing it on our own. It was a good convo; H and I are on the same page, and we agree we'd like to map out the path we'd like to take on the issue.
We also had a nice convo last night when we were out to dinner about how we both finally felt we were getting what we wanted out of M. It's nice to be on the same page.
So, I guess it's mostly about me letting go of assumptions and trusting our future. Letting go of the past...
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Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
