W has now learned (through a mutual friend) that OM is planning to elope with his new girlfriend. She is 22 and has two kids from different men, so she's probably just as messed up as OM. (W broke up with OM the first week of December and they then were "back together" from Dec 25-Jan 7.) W continues to be dumbfounded that she was in love with someone who didn't exist -- that she was in love with a fantasy.
OM's mom called W for the second time yesterday, trying to get W to send some of OM's stuff back. It's fascinating to me that OM doesn't even have the courage to call W to ask for his stuff -- he has to get his mother to do it, because he's too ashamed of himself to talk to her.
