He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

You are soooooo right. I have told my family to much already and that may affect our ability to get back together too. They say they can forgive him but will they really. I held out for 6 mos (we live in diff states) but I am very close to my Mom and it was all I could do - but now I have gone the opposite extreme with TMI....I guess I wanted them to say that ML was okay - but she did not react that way anyways.

My sister in law said I need to accept the A and the ass my H has become and start to move on. I realize I am relying on too much hope that he will come to his senses over the Ow and how wrong they are together. But then I will be crushed if he chooses her over me. And dammit I want to be in control - I want to decide if I should take him back or not - not the other way around.

I really need to get a new attitude - does that mean not seeing H for a few weeks. I feel he throws me bones every once in awhite - I read way more into them than he means to say and I am off and running with my "hopes". DO I just stop talking to him and avoid contact for a month or so? I just do not know what to do next. I hate these games and I do know I need to GAL and start to focus on me and my kids. My brain knows this but my heart if another story....