don't know that a man can fathom that, because your bladder is actually shut off when that happens... Relatively speeking, men "CAN'T" pee when they are highly sexually excited. I have to lose my E before I can pee.
So what is not to understand corri? I am not saying women have the same equipment and that women work like men. I am saying I am open to the ideas. Post a medical link describing the reason squirting and peeing for women don't happen at the same time.
I just looked for a medical site why men or women can't pee during "O" but am out of time.
From what I remember, a man can't pee because the prostate colses off the urethera during sexual excitement. As men age the prostate also squeezes the urethera and older guys like me take meds to relax the prostate so we can empty the bladder.