"Can we still just enjoy eachothers company from time to time"?
Been there, done that. She really is a good pool player and I love just meeting her to play a few games and chat. I love to play pool and she is great competition, but that's all I think of her as, good company and a good pool player.
Problem is, she wants more.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
Ford, I'm 45 years old and most of the Woman that I meet around my age are divorced. They don't play games and tell you what they want up front. I really do admire that and can relate, but after what I've been through, I'm really not interested in that.
I would rather just play games and have some fun right now! I'm probably immature and selfish for thinking that way, but Im honest with myself and my feelings and that makes me a happy person despite my circumstances.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
nothing wrong with that, Astime. the world is yours for the taking.
it's weird, the women I talk to are also my age and divorced, but they have this plan of getting remarried and, almost seems like taking up where they left off in the previous marriage.
I think the W is giving me subtle hints about intimacy. I can't tell if she's attracted to me or if she just can't wait for OM to get out of jail.
She called me on the phone just a few minutes ago to come over Monday night to spend some time with S6 and give him a bath. She never request something like this, I always have S6 over my house when I watch him. I'm thinking she wants me to spend the night. I'm thinking she wants a booty call.
I think I might feel used after Monday night. I don't think I would mind it, but I hope I can just consider myself a poolboy and not put to much emotion into it. Sometimes, she can be so evil.
That request came out of nowhere. What's up with that? Maybe I'm reading to much into it.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
I'm not sure what to make of it or if it really means anything at all, but I've noticed some physical changes in my waw recently.
At the very beginning of this ordeal with W (almost 2 years), she was frequenting the gym about 3 times a week. She bought a totally new wardrobe and was running around with her new (younger) girlfriends about two nights a week. Of course, the time I was living with her I was unaware of OM who was/is still in prison.
Recently, I've noticed her gaining weight and not going to the gym or out with her girlfriends as much as she use to. She is the heaviest I've seen her since we started dating 10 years ago.
For obvious reasons, I know I can't ask her about this sudden weight gain, but my curiosity is getting the best of me. What does this mean? She was so conscience about her appearance just a few months ago and since than she has let herself go. I was over the house just last week and she was literally gnawing off the head of a chocolate Easter bunny. You wouldn't have seen her eating anything other than salad and soup just a few months ago.
I just don't understand what she's going through right now, she's gone from one extreme to another. Subsequently, her affection towards me is increasing along with her weight. I almost feel as if she is somehow "settling" for me. This is something I definitely don't want. I'm very confused about this and would appreciate any advice. What's going on here?
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
She could be either regreting her desc and upset because you are doing so good and she is miserable, or she could just be playing more games with you....Either way do not put too much stock in it or try to read into anything that she is doing right now. You know the game. Keep detatched and do your own thing because actions speak louder than words....
Take care brother...By the way you might have to swing by the APT some time and hang out...Tourney time is just around the corner...
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
- now, if she asks you to stay, will you?