He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

The kids just cried and cried. D(12) does even want to see the apt. and S(9) stayed the night with H last night. I think they are sucking up their emotions to not hurt H (just like me right) and I keep telling them they need to express themselves to both me and H (or I will go mad). I said their dad needs to see that they are angry or sad or whatever. Even encouraged D to email her dad at work. I hope they can.

If the kids seem to handle it just fine - does this push him to the Ow too?? Same with me - if I am just peachy fine around him doesn't that show him he can move on that much more easily?????

I am not good at game playing and I'd rather be up front and honest. I understand the DBing with pursuing and being clingy and needy - this I have stopped. But I am not sure how much to talk to him during the week. He is kind to me cuz he doesn't want to hurt me more than he already has but that doesn't mean he loves me...H is just typically an all around caring person - this A is the so not him..

When does this nightmare end????