I shall simply refer you to the advice you've been giving me on my thread of late. It's been spot on and applies directly to your sitch.

Regular life has a way of screwing with your head after all the drama....

Hang in there and keep doing what you've been doing. GAL/PMA...these things don't ever not apply. At some point your W will clue in and pick up the slack.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!