Mojo,
I just wanted to say that I too think you are an incredible woman. I just feel that what your H has said and done since I've been reading your posts is sooo not about you. He's tried to make it about you, but it isn't. It's about him.
So free yourself of all the negative BS he has dumped in your lap-he can keep it, it's his.

I hope that you realize there are much happier times in your future girl. You've done an outstanding job.

Heather


"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

- Nathaniel Hawthorne