Mcojh - yes, I am almost positive he has not seen OW for about 2 months because she lives so far away and I think I would be able to figure it out (he used to go see her on his day off but he has been doing others things, including coming to see me at lunchtime) that confirms he isn't going there - but I have my suspicions that he is still in contact with her, although he says he hasn't talked to her either. All I can do is try and believe him. The trust rebuilding is so, so hard being it is the second time he has done this. I never thought I would get through the first time but this is so much harder, I don't know if I have the strength
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
