Harmonic Divergence

[Lord Grenville]

I feel like a real dolt for including so much personal or specific information in my thread. I tried sending a personal message to Jamesjohn, but the board software is not allowing me to send the message. I am hoping I can get some assistance from the moderator side of things to delete some NOUNs I should not have used.

Does anyone know if previously posted messages can be edited by an administrator?

I had a great day today in Boston, at my 6 hour job interview/tryout to become a corporate graphics facilitator. I was one of about 8 candidates, and we were all asked to complete various visual exercises and problem solving situations. I got the sense that I scored really well, and I felt my self confidence growing by the hour. I am trying not to get my hopes up too high, but this could be the perfect DB job for me, because I would be interacting with all kinds of artistic and corporate professionals, and there would be chances to travel within the U.S. and internationally. It would be a huge leap from being a solo freelancer moping in his studio when not much work is coming his way, to saying to my W: "I'll see you in three days - I've got to go to Chicago for an imporant session with -------."

Thanks to all of you who have helped provide more clarity for me in finding the balance between not being too nice to W, and not pressuring or pressing for answers, etc.

Also the various views on snooping have helped me very much too.
After beginning to get serious about GAL in the past 2 days, I feel like I want to take a break from snooping, but I do have the resources I can check in the future if I need to have a better idea of what is going on between W and OM.

I can't believe how much can happen in one week!

However, I also am prepared to work for 104 more weeks of DB if that is what it takes to heal my marriage and make it better than before.