I understand the whole ML thing....my H is/was/is an awesome lover and when he left I really thought of that loss a lot....it was hard to imagine NEVER ML to him again....and would another man be able to please me like he did...
Not good DB'ing but I would tend to want to tell OW that he was in my bed with me ML last night....soulmate my foot!!!!...but again that is NOT a good idea....
I don't think I could help him move....I don't think I could pack any of his things....
The good news is that I went through all of this and now H is home....of course it took 1 1/2 years!!!.....but then there wasn't a real hurry for me to find someone else....H left me... he thought of marrying OW....they discussed a future together... but in the end he did realize that it was best for him to come home....I won't say he had this epiphany that I was the greatest woman ever and what on earth was he thinking....but rather that I was an amazing woman who was worth working on the faults with...and in the process keeping the family together...
So put to rest your worries....and DB your BUTT off!
