Do I really sound to you that I'm an immature chest thumping moron that doesn't know how to behave or get the job done?
This is EXACTLY the way you come across here. I don't know how you come across in person.
And yes, there are two people in a marriage. And yes, YOU are the one who has to change. Why? Two reasons: 1) Because you are the one who is here asking the questions. If your wife were here posting, we would be telling her that SHE is the one who has to change. 2) You cannot change her; you can only change you.
I'm not posting any more on your thread, because your attitude is way above my level of tolerance for obnoxiousness. Note my number of posts-- I'm not a newby at this. Lose the attitude, buddy. That's my first and last comment to you.