((((Jenny)))) Good vibes to you from over the water. I think it is the right thing to do and it is so great that the two of you can be grown up about it. I like the fact that he said you had made as easy as any woman could.
You and your H did fine by your family and now it's time to say cheerio.
lots of luck
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong