I expect Divorce papers any time now. He is not the man I married. Like they say, the aliens have abducted my husband and replaced him with his exact opposite. I do not love this new man, and if he's here to stay I want no relationship with him. If my husband does come back to earth, I'll be thrilled and very open to working things out. If not, I'll be moving on. I lived on my own before I met him, and I can do it again. There are lots of wonderful men out there, and when I'm ready, I do want to be married again.
My H also started out saying it was just the last couple of years he'd been unhappy, and then it went to "most of the time we've been together". I believe this MLC stuff is pure insanity, and we need to try not to take the lies personally. I struggle with that a lot. My main goal now is to not think about the situation constantly, and to begin to make a new life without him. I keep telling myself that it's going to be a great new adventure!
Danu
Everything happens for a reason, and through this journey I will learn many things about myself
