braveheart

I don't know your history with your wife or current situation to give any advice on a decision that needs to be totally yours.

Do you feel you have done all that you can to restore your marriage?

Have you focused on yourself and "let go" of your wife?

Have you rerached a point where you feel life will be good whether you get back together with your wife or not?

Have you asked God for help?

Why do you think it's time for your to file for divorce?

Why now? Why not maybe six months from now?

The answer is within you. It can not come from someone else.
Only you will know when it is time to move forward without your wife.

"Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood." Ralph Waldo Emerson

Have you learned all that you need to learn during this experience, or do you simply want the pain to go away?

Love,
Paul

Last edited by M Go Blue; 02/24/07 03:44 PM.