I know where you are coming from.....my H wants and has filed for a D...its in the works. He has left me for a 25 yr old OW. And he FLAUNTED her about from the getgo. It hurts like a knife. Its been a yr. A long ways to go as I have seen no indication he has seen any light from within the tunnel. We had a good marrigage with a few bumps but who doesnt. But according to him all 13 yrs and 25 in total were terrible....started out with 2 yrs he was unhappy mind you.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest