Met with S14s C today. We talked about s14 and the anger he has towards H. He also told me that s14 is feeling sad and depressed at times. S14 is devistated at losing family and the thought of the house being sold. He feels scared and angry at H.
C also talked a little about H. Seems to agree that he is in crisis and told me the best advice he can give me is to take one day at a time and keep moving forward. This is something H has to either resolve on his own or dissolve the family. Nothing I can really do just keep on keeping on. He did seem to agree that H is latching on to d11 with everything he has because she right now is trying to please everyone. He seems to think that things aren't turning out how H had planned but he doesn't know what path H will take. I guess only God knows that.
D11 said that H was by today and not a happy camper. D11 can't find her cell phone (her total link to h as they text a lot at night when he is at work and she is in bed). D11 said that H accused s14 of taking it and hiding it on them. Little does he know that s14 spent a good hour last night looking for the phone. Oh...how they can blame just about anyone.
Anyway, went out to dinner with my dad while the d11 was at swim and s14 was at a friends. D11 and I have a shopping trip to go on as I got tax refund and she needs some clothes that I can't put off buying. She is growing like a weed. Anyway, wednesday is H's birthday and I don't know if I should pick up something for him...considering I really haven't spoken to him since the credit card incident and I am not really sure what to get him. Any suggestions would be helpful.
One last thing, got a restricted hangup on the cell last night at 2:00 am. First time all week. I wonder if I am on his mind. I sure hope so.
