8, it's me again! I'm beginning to feel like a stalker I've been thinking about your belief that by not booting your W you are thereby condoning the A. How so? Does she believe right now that you are OK with it? Why would she think that? My W knows damn well I don't condone it nor will I do anything to aid it. I don't change my schedule to fit in with her A, she can manage that around mine! I've been very clear that I think what she is doing is immoral...big deal! So is booting her going to somehow convey anything more? Would saying "I'm not leaving my family because of your actions, go ahead and leave if you want to" tell her you don't condone it? What about using the Last Resort Technique...would that still be condoning the A? I guess I just want to make sure you are moving beyond the testosterone that sometimes fuels our male thinking, when it shouldn't! Sure, all the guys will say "kick her to the curb, demand respect" but what I've learned is what the guys say is often the WRONG thing to do, in your shoes they'd do just what you're doing. Now I'll leave you alone, I swear!!!!
