Quote: ----------------------------------------------------- So, my other question is: Do I agree to the proposal, to stop snooping just to get W to "offically" agree to end her relationship? I do know the snooping is causing me anxiety and draining energy, so it probably would do me good. -----------------------------------------------------
Since your wife was the first to betray, she can go first on proving that the infidelity has ended. The burden of proof is on her. She must NEVER contact other man again. You snoop long enough to verify that she is keeping her word, and anytime after when you suspect that she has broken her word.
Right now, she will agree to anything to get you to stop snooping in order to continue her affair unrestrained. Don't be a chump. Remember rule number one.
I hope that you have also availed yourself of the materials I brought to your attention. There is much wisdom to be gleaned.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
