Thanks for the reply - I know this will get easier it's just going to take time and patience which I have a lot of. I have an awesome group of friends - my four therapists I call them. One newlywed (has the young fresh opinion), one who's been cheated on but they got thru it, my sister in law who went through a nasty divorce and my best friend whose parents had a nasty divorce (she keeps me grounded on the kid issues). I talk to all 4 almost everyday - though now that the drama is going to die down a bit my soap opera may get boring (I can only hope).
Thanks again for your support. Tonight is family night and we get to set up for a cheer competition. Sat. is the cheer competition D(12) and basketball S(9) and then we drop the bomb on them. I already talked to S(9)'s teacher to prep her and have her watch for issues in him. This is my next hurdle getting over telling the kids. I will keep you posted!
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
