Quote: -------------------------------------------------- My next project for myself is how to do something like the dance situation w/o coming across like I am out looking for an OW or a string of "just friends females." --------------------------------------------------
You accomplish that by demonstration. You go out and have a good time, and you come home alone. If you aren't looking, it will become apparent to BB. In the mean time, it won't hurt for her to have to wonder a bit. Please note, this would NOT be what I would recommend to other people. It does fit your situation however.
Don't get her permission to go out. Just do it and invite her at the last minute. That shows that you can be spontaneous and prevents her from having time to control the situation. That will unbalance the relationship, and potentially cause her to re-engage.
If you are not happy with sitting, shopping, being cared for less than the animals, and being coerced into living in a patio home, then you take the lead and mark out a plan for your life. Negotiate a mutually satisfying relationship with your wife once you have demonstrated your seriousness.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
