I guess the kind of play H is looking for is to be the bad boy monkey who goes up against the bitchy lioness. For awhile now, he's been playing the in charge bull to my passive bunny. ( I am sure the only one following this is MJ.)
BTW, this whole animal thing reminds me of the Chinese Zodiac. When the kids were small, we played this family game where everyone personified the animal of their bith year, and we went around chasing one another. For the record, I was a tiger, my husband a cow, my daughter a monkey and my son a dog. Leave it to MJ to now sexualize this innocent game.
Mr. NJ got teased to death last nite,lol.
LFL, yes I did need to physically push him away because he followed me into the room when I was trying to declare my space. So I was attempting to push him out,lol.
Lil, no, this fantasy didn't really surprise me... I think there's some psych dynamic with him that wants to be the punished little boy. He can be OCDish and is hard on himself when he gives into impulses. His attempt to have perfect self control results in impulsive behavior. Enacting this struggle turns him on, I suppose.
