Well, good news and bad new. W called after coach called. I told her it went well, but she got upset when I didn't give her specifics. I told her some things but left others (inportant) out. We got on the talk about M, and she said there is one thing that I don't give her. and basically the only thing that is stopping her. SEX, I don't satisfy her sexually. She said thats the only thing between her and OM. I told her thats an easy fix, it's just communication between us. She feels that she shouldn't have to tell me what she needs, but I told her I can't give you what you need unless I know. She is still confused and I will let her go for now. I told her when and if she wants to reconcile we can figure out the problem and work on this issue. So, like I said good news and bad news.
That is so similar to what my W said back in Nov/Dec. It's almost scary, she said pretty much the exact thing! BUT, she never admitted to having sex with OM, said it was only emotional. I'm not going to worry about that now, since it's history for me, but I agree with the above posts - you can work on it.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
